I didn’t tell anyone I got married, except for the 3 people who were there (Ashley, Ethel, and Thomas’ black friend).
Some how my aunt figured it out through a photo someone posted of us all dressed up at our “after party” (The Pie Emporium).
So my aunt called my grandmother, my grandmother called my mom, my mom came in to the living room and asked if we were married while we were eating ice cream and watching Wilfred.
I held up my hand and said, “If you like it then put a ring on it.”
Then we both left for college, still happily married.